The Ceremony

Sun
Nov 15
2026
2:30 pm TO 10:00 pm

Botanica
190 Wilshire Rd
Oceanside, CA 92057
United States


RSVP Note

RSVP access and meal selections will become available once formal invitations are sent out in August 2026.

Dress Code

We’re keeping things semi-formal. Dress to feel your best while celebrating with us. We also recommend bringing a layer for the cooler November evenings.

A Look Into Our Wedding Palette
FAQs

WHEN SHOULD I ARRIVE?
Please arrive between 2:30–3:00 PM to allow time to be seated before the ceremony begins.


WILL THE WEDDING BE OUTDOORS?
Yes! We’ll be celebrating outdoors, with a tented reception. November evenings can get a bit chilly, so don’t forget a jacket or wrap.


IS THERE PARKING AVAILABLE AT THE VENUE?
Yes, there will be plenty of parking available.


DO GUESTS NEED TO WEAR THE WEDDING COLORS?
Not at all! Guests are welcome to wear whatever they feel best in within the dress code. However, if you'd like to coordinate with the overall aesthetic and surrounding décor for photos, you’re welcome to draw inspiration from our wedding palette.


ARE CHILDREN WELCOME?
As much as we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you can enjoy a fun night out and appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time.


DO I HAVE A PLUS ONE?
To keep our celebration intimate, we are unable to accommodate plus ones unless they are specifically indicated on your invitation.


CAN I TAKE PHOTOS AND VIDEOS DURING THE CEREMONY?
We’re having a partially unplugged ceremony and kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos or videos so everyone can be fully present with us. Our photographer will capture it all. Afterward, we’d love for you to snap and share during the reception using our QR code!


ARE YOU REGISTERED?
Yes, you can find our gift registry in the “Gift Registry” section of this website.


WHEN IS THE RSVP DEADLINE?
We kindly ask that you RSVP by October 1, 2026. If possible, please respond as soon as your plans are confirmed. As the date approaches, we may follow up if we haven’t heard from you.

WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?
Yes, but we will be serving a limited selection of alcoholic beverages, in addition to soft drinks.

CAN I POST ABOUT THE WEDDING ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
We kindly ask that you refrain from sharing details about the wedding for now. Once we get closer to the wedding week, we’d love to see your excitement and celebration shared online.


WILL THERE BE TRANSPORTATION PROVIDED?
Transportation will not be provided. We encourage guests to carpool when possible and recommend staying at the suggested hotel the night before the wedding for added convenience.


WHAT HOTELS NEARBY ARE RECOMMENDED?
We suggest SpringHill Suites by Marriott San Diego Carlsbad for your stay. It’s about 20 minutes from the venue and offers a comfortable, convenient option for guests.


WHO CAN I CONTACT WITH ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS?
If you have any additional questions, please feel free to contact Ashley at 310-425-6348.